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she is dating again. i am not comfortable with it to be honest. it is not that i do not want her to be happy, i am just not used to be seeing another man in the house aside from my Uncle Merv. He was special. he is gone 1 year now and people reckon it is time. reallY is there such a time frame. i think when you really love someone it is not that easy to just go out and date again. maybe i am being immature. i am not used to it. grandma, lola, mama and everyone in my family remained single since their hubby left them to be with the Lord. i do not want aunty to stay the same. i want her to be with someone someday.but not now. for me it is too soon. and maybe also i did not like the way they met. i am conservative that way.
i can not help but compare him with uncle merv. yes, he is only few years older than her now but even if uncle Merv was 15 years older he did not look that old. he was always neat and tidy, tall and in good build. this one looks rugged and old. one thing that makes him attractive is his beautiful huge house infront of the water.his boat sitting nicely infront while the sun strikes through the big glass wall on his house." i dont love him yet but i will learn to love him one day. ", she said.WHAT?! for me love is not taught . i can not imagine myself forcing myself to someone. you can at least be little be attracted to the person right?
she said she need to be with someone to help her pay the bills. (you wish!) she wants to enjoy life and not work too hard anymore as she is getting older. s0 why not just work smarter. save money and go for holiday later . the problem with people is they want everything right now without lifting a finger as much as possible. why do you have to use a man to experience the nice things in life. why not use your brain not your body? she answered, why not use both?
eversince i came here in nz, my aunty and i never really were in the same wavelength when it comes to men. remember the drama me and david went through ? anyway, i hope this man will treat her well. and i hope someday i will learn to accept him.
and guess what Daniella said when she first met him? "he is not my Uncle Lolo (how we call uncle merv) he is yacky!"
she said she need to be with someone to help her pay the bills. (you wish!) she wants to enjoy life and not work too hard anymore as she is getting older.
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I think Norms we have different reasons for being with someone or wanting to be with someone. When one gets older kuno praktikalay nalang daw..
hi norms, im sure she thought about it hard.
ReplyDeletei so agree that love is not an attitude that you can teach your heart to love someone...marriage is hard enough if relationships are founded on love, how much more if its founded on something else..
as much as we advise our love ones that theyre heading for disaster, some things they need to learn themselves..but i understand how you feel..if only they can do things we want them to...pray Norms..that she wil be guided in her decisions..*hugs*
mao ba mai? lisod diay ning old love..i thought we would be wiser as we are more mature and this time we want to make sure we are really happy kay gamay na lang time. ambot oi
ReplyDeletemao jud chel korek ka dyan.she knows man that we are nt keen and she understands that. nagminaldita ra gud siguro ming tanan!
ReplyDeletewe are all anti.ok ra man si aunty sad.